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Saturday, February 18, 2017

Adele, Beyonce, and Me - the Story of an Ally

During the 2017 Grammy Awards, Adele swept the music competition, beating Beyoncé and her Lemonade album multiple times.  What shocked the entertainment industry was Adele’s acceptance speech.  Watch the speech below.  It was a speech devoted to Adele's belief in the superiority of Beyoncé's album.


Much has been said about the speech – positive and negative.  To get a clearer view of the situation, it is wise to look at it from a female perspective, one black and one white.

Black Perspective: Michaela Coel is a writer for The Guardian, and she is a British black woman.  Coel matches the race and gender referenced by Adele, so her opinion is especially valuable.  Coel writes:
“Was there really a white celebrity on stage at the Grammys saying to a black artist: ‘The way that you make me and my friends feel, the way you make my black friends feel, is empowering’?  We’ve all seen clips of Adele’s inspiring acceptance speech at the Grammys by now. I clicked on the link to watch, and the first thing I heard was Adele saying: ‘I can’t possibly accept this award … I’m very humbled and I’m very grateful … but my artist of my life is Beyoncé. And this album to me, the Lemonade album, is just so monumental’…Adele had won, but had basically said she didn’t deserve it.”



“Queen Beyoncé’s reaction was so graceful: she was as shocked as we were. Then she blushed as she cried: tears equally laced with humility and pain. Because of the deranged voting process of the Grammys, she would not be joining the ranks of the mere 10 black artists who have won album of the year since the award was created in 1959. Only 10. And none in the last decade at all. Did you know that? If it hadn’t been for Adele’s speech, I wouldn’t have either.”


“I’ve since seen streams of tweets raging at Adele for ‘differentiating between races’, chirping ‘how dare she pity Beyoncé and offer her some kind of pathetic shout out’. I saw things differently.”

“I screamed, ‘YES, ADELE, YAAAS’ – because what she did in that moment was rare: she thought the award should’ve gone to somebody else, and she told us the truth. She is rare in the creative arts industry…”

Coel reported that Adele has been judged, but I must wonder who is doing the judging.  Coel is a black woman, and she embraced Adele’s recognition of race.  Beyoncé was the one being recognized, and she was not offended.  So, who is it offending?  I offer that it offends people who are uncomfortable inside their own skins and have not yet recognized the cultural realities in our world.


White Perspective: Hannah Briggs is a writer for TheFrisky.com, and she is a white woman.  She often covers the entertainment industry and follows race relations.  Briggs writes:
“Much has been said about whether Adele’s not-so-acceptance speech was the right thing to do. Some praised her, while some scolded her mention of her ‘black friends,’ her ‘mommy’ joke, and everything in between.”

“I will say this, it wasn’t perfect, but it was damn near close… And she could teach us all—myself included—about how to be a good ally.”

“Over the past few months the focus of how to ‘be a good ally’ to marginalized communities has become a hot topic. A Google search of the phrase will return millions of results with articles guiding straight/white/able-bodied/etc. people on how to help more or telling us what doesn’t—which is awesome, by the way.”


“Fighting alongside members of groups that you don’t belong to while keeping sight of your own privilege can be difficult...she did everything in her power to draw attention to the injustice that she felt had just been done—even though that injustice benefited her.”

“The biggest points of criticism that Adele has seen in the days since, have had to do with three specific words that she chose: ‘my black friends.’ Look, if that left a bad taste in your mouth, I get it. It never looks good for a white woman to mention having black friends when making a statement about racism…Adele’s shout out wasn’t to highlight her own non-racism—it was meant to highlight the unique experience of black womanhood expressed through Lemonade.”

“Adele knew good and well that she won because the Grammy voters were not the people that Lemonade spoke to most. She mentioned those friends to show that she understood that she, herself, did not represent that demographic either. To ignore that fact in this context would have been a shocking, if not unforgivable, oversight.”

“Of course, everyone was disappointed and confused when Beyoncé didn’t take home the top prize, but the fact that she didn’t is not Adele’s fault…she used the platform she was given to draw attention to the injustice and the importance of acknowledging the power of Beyoncé’s work on Lemonade (and throughout her entire career).”


“At the end of the day, isn’t that what the best allies do?”

Briggs repeatedly used the word “ALLY”.  She taught that by supporting others in a fight for justice, one can be an ally, no matter the gender, ethnicity, orientation, ability…

Tawnya, the Ally: For the last few weeks I have been questioning if anyone would want to read a white girl’s blog written for the first- generation Hispanic college student.  I attended workshops to earn DreamZone certification (look for future blogs) where I heard the word ally, but I didn’t really get it until Adele and Beyoncé exemplified a respectful, appreciative, and supportive relationship.  Adele didn’t claim to identify with Beyonce’s struggles, as she never could fully experience those obstacles because of the color of her skin, but she did acknowledge the goodness that Beyoncé stimulates. 

I am an ally for the Hispanic community in Mesa, Arizona.  I am an ally for those Latinos that overstayed their visas, for those whose grandparents struggled to own land in the southwest, for those whose parents brought them over the border when they were small children, and for those who have earned their American citizenship. 

I want to provide a space for achieving greater understanding, because with knowledge comes compassion and respect.  I want to stand up for all of those Hispanics who have had such a positive impact in my life.  I may not experience the pain of minorities, but I stand in awe of the magnificence the pain can produce.






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